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Thursday, August 19, 2010
Hair By Andeen: Power of a Dream
Hair By Andeen: Power of a Dream: "I wanted to share this poem from Marilyn Monroe, please enjoy. Power of a Dream To have a dream in your heart that you must make come tru..."
Power of a Dream
Power of a Dream
To have a dream in your heart that you must make come true, to think about constantly - even wake up at two or three in the morning when everything's still, plotting and scheming new ways to fulfill
this desire that's burning so deeply inside, it's no wish or whim - it will not be denied. Imagine it happening - set a picture in your mind,
Then strive on believing your dream will come true,
be consistent, persistent in all that you do.
You'll come across hurdles - you'll stumble and fall,
some days it will seem like your back's against the wall.
Frustrated and weary and filled with self-doubt
but a voice from within you will rise up and shout,
"You know you can do this - just stick to your schemes,
don't dwell on the obstacles - focus on your dreams."
Be self-disciplined - do whatever it takes for the wall around success is to
keep out the fakes.
Whether you make them come true or you let your dreams fade, one thing is for certain - a price will be paid. The choice is all yours - which one will it be? The thrill of your victory or the agony of defeat.
Marilyn
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Long hair over 35, to cut or not to cut
Fashion and Beauty magazines routinely recommend older women cut their hair, some going so far as to assign an arbitrary age - 40 or even 30 - after which long hair becomes a fashion no-no. Besides keeping hairstylists in business, what merit do these statements have?
All too often, women hang on to their long hair because they believe it make them look youthful. Yet, beauty and fashion magazines say there is nothing more aging than long hair once a woman reaches a certain age. The difficulty is knowing and accepting when you've reached the point "to cut" your hair shorter.
Stars today, such as Demi Moore and Sandra Bullock wear their hair long, are over 40 and look fabulous.
How many times have you had a bad day, "ruined" by a bad hairstyle-how many times have you canceled a date, or started your style over; some woman believe their hair exudes self esteem and their identity tends to be tied to their hair?
Emotionally, women are unable to cut their long hair. They usually have stopped wearing it down because, subconsciously, they realize it makes them look old; and when they pull it back they see cheekbones, a great smile, and fabulous eyes. So what is the point of keeping it long?
Changing your long dated style can not only give the illusion of looking years younger, but it can be a new beginning for a new you, a new polished looks that makes you feel invigorated, empowered. Long hair may be sexy, but shorter hair can be even sexier.
Tami Boubon, a Las Vegas Paralegal, says: "I do not buy into the idea that age, as a number, should guide a woman's life in any area. As with everything, our style changes as we develop. When we get to a certain place in our lives, we don't feel as comfortable wearing "cock pit" skirts or tops cut down to our navel and 6 inch stilettos. Some women go through life feeling that their flowing locks define them but sometimes they finally reach a point where they feel liberated enough to cut their hair into a shorter style that is more complimentary of their personality at that point in time. Maybe hair length and shoe height go hand-in-hand. But, I personally do not think it has anything to do with "age" as a number.
Maybe, it is better to say our hair style is reflective of our personality rather than our age. As you know, so many young, hot, trendy girls are rocking shorter styles now. I love it. For me, personally, I have cut my hair off and I hated it. I know trendy, professional women in their 50's-60's with long, gorgeous, classy hair. ...and their hair fits their personality. It's a very personal individual style choice and I think passing judgment on hair length based on age shows a lack of grace by the individual judging."
Every individual has an opinion on whether long hair on someone over 30 should be cut shorter; but what are the myths?
•Long hair ages a woman
•Older woman should have short hair
•Long hair on an older woman is unattractive
There are several myth's in the "hair world", to read more go to: Top Ten Hair Myths according to: Hair News Magazine by: Damien R. von Dahlem.
Ladies, if your hair is healthy, shiny and you take care of it; with frequent trims and maintain the color then-beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you can look in the mirror and love yourself, then why cut your hair short.
All too often, women hang on to their long hair because they believe it make them look youthful. Yet, beauty and fashion magazines say there is nothing more aging than long hair once a woman reaches a certain age. The difficulty is knowing and accepting when you've reached the point "to cut" your hair shorter.
Stars today, such as Demi Moore and Sandra Bullock wear their hair long, are over 40 and look fabulous.
How many times have you had a bad day, "ruined" by a bad hairstyle-how many times have you canceled a date, or started your style over; some woman believe their hair exudes self esteem and their identity tends to be tied to their hair?
Emotionally, women are unable to cut their long hair. They usually have stopped wearing it down because, subconsciously, they realize it makes them look old; and when they pull it back they see cheekbones, a great smile, and fabulous eyes. So what is the point of keeping it long?
Changing your long dated style can not only give the illusion of looking years younger, but it can be a new beginning for a new you, a new polished looks that makes you feel invigorated, empowered. Long hair may be sexy, but shorter hair can be even sexier.
Maybe, it is better to say our hair style is reflective of our personality rather than our age. As you know, so many young, hot, trendy girls are rocking shorter styles now. I love it. For me, personally, I have cut my hair off and I hated it. I know trendy, professional women in their 50's-60's with long, gorgeous, classy hair. ...and their hair fits their personality. It's a very personal individual style choice and I think passing judgment on hair length based on age shows a lack of grace by the individual judging."
Every individual has an opinion on whether long hair on someone over 30 should be cut shorter; but what are the myths?
•Long hair ages a woman
•Older woman should have short hair
•Long hair on an older woman is unattractive
There are several myth's in the "hair world", to read more go to: Top Ten Hair Myths according to: Hair News Magazine by: Damien R. von Dahlem.
Ladies, if your hair is healthy, shiny and you take care of it; with frequent trims and maintain the color then-beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if you can look in the mirror and love yourself, then why cut your hair short.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Are you bored with your look, and your stylist just isn't listening
Frustrated with your Hair Stylist
Are you bored with your look, not connecting with your Stylist; do you find your Stylist is talking more about the night she had than about your style and color? Then perhaps it’s time to find a new Hairstylist.
Looking for a new stylist can be challenging — even if you’re a people person or great at networking. Here are some tips to help you find the perfect salon and stylist for you.
It’s always easiest to start with friends and family. I’m sure there’s someone close to you who has a hair style you admire. The cut doesn’t have to reflect your personal style, but there should be something about it that you really like — the way it stays so shiny or how the bangs hug the face. Don’t be afraid to ask her who her stylist is.
Find someone on the street whose color or cut really catches your eye. Ask them where they get their hair done-don’t forget to tell the how fabulous their hair looks-opens the door to great conversation and the willingness for them to share their Stylist.
When you have a few salon recommendations, book a consultation. Most consultations are free, and there should never be a commitment to make an appointment. If there is a consultation fee, usually they will deduct it from the bill after your services.
Once you’ve found the stylist of your dreams, be honest about any past hair traumas with other stylists and be absolutely honest about any home coloring or chemical straightening you may have done. Seriously, being honest from the get-go is crucial to getting a great end result.
Trust your stylist and remember that it’s a partnership. We can create a great style for you in the salon, but you have to work to keep it looking great at home.
Are you bored with your look, not connecting with your Stylist; do you find your Stylist is talking more about the night she had than about your style and color? Then perhaps it’s time to find a new Hairstylist.
Looking for a new stylist can be challenging — even if you’re a people person or great at networking. Here are some tips to help you find the perfect salon and stylist for you.
It’s always easiest to start with friends and family. I’m sure there’s someone close to you who has a hair style you admire. The cut doesn’t have to reflect your personal style, but there should be something about it that you really like — the way it stays so shiny or how the bangs hug the face. Don’t be afraid to ask her who her stylist is.
Find someone on the street whose color or cut really catches your eye. Ask them where they get their hair done-don’t forget to tell the how fabulous their hair looks-opens the door to great conversation and the willingness for them to share their Stylist.
When you have a few salon recommendations, book a consultation. Most consultations are free, and there should never be a commitment to make an appointment. If there is a consultation fee, usually they will deduct it from the bill after your services.
Once you’ve found the stylist of your dreams, be honest about any past hair traumas with other stylists and be absolutely honest about any home coloring or chemical straightening you may have done. Seriously, being honest from the get-go is crucial to getting a great end result.
Trust your stylist and remember that it’s a partnership. We can create a great style for you in the salon, but you have to work to keep it looking great at home.
Monday, August 9, 2010
Networking-tips and strategies to build your business.
Effective Networking: how to capture new clients and build your business
Networking can get you a job or otherwise expand your business horizons. The key to networking is not only taking the initiative ' and refining your conversational skills, but also knowing what events to attend with people who need your products/services (or know others who do) it will create a natural interest in knowing more about you and your business/services.
Fundamentals:
Business cards (easily accessible)
Handshake: firm, palm-to-palm grip with solid wrist
Nametag: First and last name and the company name, high on the right shoulder
Details:
Location/direction: fashionably late is not advised
Invitation: where, when, time
Dress attire: being either over dressed or underdressed is not appropriate
Strategy:
YOU are the business
Dress appropriately: no wrinkles, stains or clothing that is either to tight, revealing or to loose
Well-groomed: make sure your hair, make-up (if applicable) and nails are well maintained
Be sincere in connecting with the other attendee’s, you never know who that next big break will come from
Assert confidence
ALWAYS smile
Review a list of sponsors/committee members and attendee’s
What is the purpose of the event and why are you attending
Mingling:
Never stand off to the side of the room, go straight to where the attendee’s are gathering
Initiate dialogue and introduce yourself
Ask for a business card, ALWAYS look at the card, read it’s content before putting it away-this shows respect and sincerity
Spend 3-8 minutes with each person, if the conversation is lasting longer, ask to set up a meeting at a later date
Move On
Creating genuine bonds:
Listen attentively
Eye contact is imperative, it shows a genuine interest
Engage in effective conversation
Have a prepared short and memorable pitch about you and what you offer, don’t ramble
Clearly communicate
Be mindful of your body language-folder arms shows that you are not interested http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/body_language.htm
Never talk with food in your mouth
After the event what is your professional responsibility:
Follow up: if you said you would call, then call, send an email, make a third party introduction, set up a meeting
Just do it
Utilize these tips at the next networking event. The reality is people want to do business with people they know and trust. You build relationships in time. Networking events are not just about collecting business cards; they are to form new relationships. Be yourself, be honest and most importantly, have fun!
Networking can get you a job or otherwise expand your business horizons. The key to networking is not only taking the initiative ' and refining your conversational skills, but also knowing what events to attend with people who need your products/services (or know others who do) it will create a natural interest in knowing more about you and your business/services.
Fundamentals:
Business cards (easily accessible)
Handshake: firm, palm-to-palm grip with solid wrist
Nametag: First and last name and the company name, high on the right shoulder
Details:
Location/direction: fashionably late is not advised
Invitation: where, when, time
Dress attire: being either over dressed or underdressed is not appropriate
Strategy:
YOU are the business
Dress appropriately: no wrinkles, stains or clothing that is either to tight, revealing or to loose
Well-groomed: make sure your hair, make-up (if applicable) and nails are well maintained
Be sincere in connecting with the other attendee’s, you never know who that next big break will come from
Assert confidence
ALWAYS smile
Review a list of sponsors/committee members and attendee’s
What is the purpose of the event and why are you attending
Mingling:
Never stand off to the side of the room, go straight to where the attendee’s are gathering
Initiate dialogue and introduce yourself
Ask for a business card, ALWAYS look at the card, read it’s content before putting it away-this shows respect and sincerity
Spend 3-8 minutes with each person, if the conversation is lasting longer, ask to set up a meeting at a later date
Move On
Creating genuine bonds:
Listen attentively
Eye contact is imperative, it shows a genuine interest
Engage in effective conversation
Have a prepared short and memorable pitch about you and what you offer, don’t ramble
Clearly communicate
Be mindful of your body language-folder arms shows that you are not interested http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/body_language.htm
Never talk with food in your mouth
After the event what is your professional responsibility:
Follow up: if you said you would call, then call, send an email, make a third party introduction, set up a meeting
Just do it
Utilize these tips at the next networking event. The reality is people want to do business with people they know and trust. You build relationships in time. Networking events are not just about collecting business cards; they are to form new relationships. Be yourself, be honest and most importantly, have fun!
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
To write or not to write
So you think you can write-define the definition of a writer: someone who is literate, grammatically correct, someone who possesses the basic understanding of something that matters and feels the need to write about it-well that is what I am about to embark upon.
I promise, there will be grammer errors, perhaps mispelled words (love spell check) and I can assure you, there will be things you read-that will probably piss you off, but I also assure you, I will do my best to base things on facts.
Hmmm-facts, opinions, these things matter in life an we all have them-so deal with it.
I promise, there will be grammer errors, perhaps mispelled words (love spell check) and I can assure you, there will be things you read-that will probably piss you off, but I also assure you, I will do my best to base things on facts.
Hmmm-facts, opinions, these things matter in life an we all have them-so deal with it.
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